There are times when in life you actually sit back and wonder about the world around you. Sometimes you marvel it's beauty and sometimes raise your eyebrows in disbelief. I faced a very similar situation yesterday.
It is the natural instinct of us to think that our problems are the greatest of all. I thought so too. I was having some problems in adjusting to some changes in my life. Let's remain discreet about them. To me their magnitude swelled up each time I faced them. It would lead me to believe that maybe by being understanding you do not always do what is right. There was a time when I started to believe that maybe because of my understanding nature I was being treated like trash. Maybe I had no value.
But I was wrong. And am thankful to god about it. Yesterday in front of my own eyes I saw a friend of mine being treated like trash. It was far far more worse than what I had been going through. I mean at least comparatively my problems were nothing.
Then why did I feel so? Is it because all girls are always told that guys are born to treat them like that? Or was it because I was feeling insecure? Then does that mean that I have lost all my confidence on myself? Then if that's the case how do I get it back?
So many questions all these have been burning in my min like fire since yesterday. I don't know the answers to any of the questions above but yeah all I can say that those 30 mins yesterday taught me a very valuable lesson.
